Forgiveness is a strange quality. It's an emotional investment for me--my hope is that someone is worth forgiving, and that in some way, through a stronger friendship or mutual growth, I/we benefit from it. I can't find forgiveness for this man, though, lately, I have been occasionally regretting not finding it.
I do question how long I have the right to alienate someone for the crime of disrupting a marriage. That's one of those unanswerable questions, though.
*shudder* Disoriented, wobbly, suddenly tired.